Anyone else bored with Asian massages?

[Bsmalls1]

I've been at this game for many many years. Up until 2 years ago, the thrill of trying a new place a new lady and rolling the dice would keep me up and fully engaged. Id be rock hard even walking into this place! This was the hay days of Sunny, Mia, Wendy, Daisy, Josi et.

Something changed though 2 years ago.. I am kinda just.. Bored now? I still go but the excitement just isnt there. I find myself wanting to leave the massage sometimes half way through. I am hard during the main event now but not much during the tease or when I'm walking in.

Am I doing something wrong or does everyone experience this at some point?

 

[Filbrecht]

Yeah, I heard about that, it's called 'aging'...

 

[welldunn66]

I am not bored. Libido still up

 

[Mebad23]

Why not just go for the legit massage and enjoy that for what it is.

 

[Liaable]

Everyone's different, some settle for same menu when it comes down to food or girls, others need to spice up and update it sometimes.

Maybe you need to see new girls...lol

 

[Albertaman]

Yeah, I heard about that, it's called 'aging'...

Yeah, I heard about that, it's called 'aging'...

No question, we clients are aging, but so are the therapists. In our two major cities in Alberta, the one more south has turned into a place with more grannies than aunties.. no new influx of providers. Though a lot of new people are arriving as evidenced by people you see in public shopping areas etc, not much new talent has migrated to this industry. Don’t follow the condo based FS, and escorts type businesses so can’t really comment.


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[Old Fart]

Why not just go for the legit massage and enjoy that for what it is.

Age could definitely be the reason but this is definitely the best solution.

 

[Slingshot66]

Sometimes taking a break from the hobby, for a while can do it for you. Summer is around the corner & weather is getting nice, allowing you to do more things outdoors. Could be a good time to take advantage of some fresh air & sunshine……When you’re ready to jump back in, it may feel more like a treat to yourself than a repetition……

 

[Eastcoastdan]

The answer for me is yes. I only go to one Asian provider (and only 2 in total now), and I will continue as long as the overall experience continues to be awesome.

 

[Smiles1401]

Stop and assess what you truly enjoy about the experience. Is it a relaxing massage, the touching and teasing, the ending, the thrill of seeing a cute naked girl? Next, just focus on that part you’re most interested in. If you just want to relax, get a legit massage and remove all thoughts of perhaps get something extra. If it’s touching and teasing, look for girls that offer that, and you know is going to be young and cute. Look on LL or caf. If it’s the fun you want, then you’ll probably better off going to a fs place. It’s only slight more expensive but most of the time is spent on the fun rather than just the last 10 min. Plus you’re guaranteed younger and prettier attendants.

 

[Smiles1401]

Like you, I started out with asian massages. The good thing is that it offers a little bit of everything (massage, tease, nudity, HE, and rarely fs), but if you’re mainly interested in only a few of these aspects, you can find much better quality elsewhere that specializes in it.

The thrill of possibly finding an amazing lady kept me coming back for a while, but the misses far outweigh the hits, so I just decided it wasn’t worth the time or money going in blind anymore. I still do, but maybe only once a year now. I much prefer to know what the lady looks like and maybe some reviews ahead of time.

 

[Jelloguy]

I would love an attractive white lady big ole titties who love to tease and play. There my wish list is known.

 

[Deleted member 119570]

Nope....love Asian women long before I found Asian massages

 

[wasskiwabit]

I've been at this game for many many years. Up until 2 years ago, the thrill of trying a new place a new lady and rolling the dice would keep me up and fully engaged. Id be rock hard even walking into this place! This was the hay days of Sunny, Mia, Wendy, Daisy, Josi et.

Something changed though 2 years ago.. I am kinda just.. Bored now? I still go but the excitement just isnt there. I find myself wanting to leave the massage sometimes half way through. I am hard during the main event now but not much during the tease or when I'm walking in.

Am I doing something wrong or does everyone experience this at some point?

Has happened to me too. . One of the posters, on this thread talked about doing a bit of self reflection on where the joy comes from in this hobby. Very good question. I have switched from the thrill of the hunt for something new, to the comfort of familiarity, to probably full on addiction to sex (obsession of the mind) that could only be temporarily abated by a good interaction with the service provider ( and a good fuck).After 35 years in the hobby there seems to be nothing left on the bucket list that gets me really excited in anticapation. Perhaps a lengthy break might be what the doctor ordered.
Everyone’s experience in this hobby is different. I am happy for the guys ( and their service providers) still enjoying this hobby.

 

[Sun&SandMan]

Has happened to me too. . One of the posters, on this thread talked about doing a bit of self reflection on where the joy comes from in this hobby. Very good question. I have switched from the thrill of the hunt for something new, to the comfort of familiarity, to probably full on addiction to sex (obsession of the mind) that could only be temporarily abated by a good interaction with the service provider ( and a good fuck).After 35 years in the hobby there seems to be nothing left on the bucket list that gets me really excited in anticapation. Perhaps a lengthy break might be what the doctor ordered.
Everyone’s experience in this hobby is different. I am happy for the guys ( and their service providers) still enjoying this hobby.

Sounds to me you need to buy some nice dry red wine, bring it over to Laura Edmonton's place downtown. Open it up for her and then ask her to get my bottle of scotch from her cupboard and have her pour you a nice full glass over ice.
She will set you straight to get your wheels back on the tracks. LOL

 

[sleeker]

Im more selective. I used to just blindly hit up semi legits. There is always a thrill of trying someone new however so anything new piques my interest.

Ive been saving my budget for hotwife helena. She has new +1s that have me excited. Shes also apparently good at playing out the fantasy of being a legit RMT who steps out of line which has always been something im into (i dont think itll ever happen for real tbh haha). I guess im looking for quality encounters nowadays unless big titties are involved, then count me in.

 

[Sundance69]

I've been at this game for many many years. Up until 2 years ago, the thrill of trying a new place a new lady and rolling the dice would keep me up and fully engaged. Id be rock hard even walking into this place! This was the hay days of Sunny, Mia, Wendy, Daisy, Josi et.

Something changed though 2 years ago.. I am kinda just.. Bored now? I still go but the excitement just isnt there. I find myself wanting to leave the massage sometimes half way through. I am hard during the main event now but not much during the tease or when I'm walking in.

Am I doing something wrong or does everyone experience this at some point?

Ha, after many years of visiting, seems I've hit the same feeling. I enjoy the visits, but not what they used to be.
Maybe just too many visits, or maybe just too many beautiful naked asian women, but just not what it used to be.

I've taken to seeing all my old favourites and in almost all cases, they are not as good or as beautiful as I recall, so a little disappointing.
Even the new girls don't have the same charm or mystery?

Maybe just too many visits, over too many years, or maybe just know too much about the business and the girls.
Maybe just got tired of the same old, same old. I do miss the excitement, but I am saving lots of money! HA

I'm reminded of Supertramp - From Now On " I'm in the same old place - The same old faces always watching me."

I'm still out and about, still enjoying the girls, but "That's the way it's got to be - From now on."

 

[Shyman3]

Ha, after many years of visiting, seems I've hit the same feeling. I enjoy the visits, but not what they used to be.
Maybe just too many visits, or maybe just too many beautiful naked asian women, but just not what it used to be.

I've taken to seeing all my old favourites and in almost all cases, they are not as good or as beautiful as I recall, so a little disappointing.
Even the new girls don't have the same charm or mystery?

Maybe just too many visits, over too many years, or maybe just know too much about the business and the girls.
Maybe just got tired of the same old, same old. I do miss the excitement, but I am saving lots of money! HA

I'm reminded of Supertramp - From Now On " I'm in the same old place - The same old faces always watching me."

I'm still out and about, still enjoying the girls, but "That's the way it's got to be - From now on."

I couldn't agree more. Seems like its getting stale, but I think thats my fault. Need to venture out to some of the south side places. Seem like they get more girls then the west end semi legits!

After 100+ visits with some of these girls, change probably for the best lol

 

[Sundance69]

I couldn't agree more. Seems like its getting stale, but I think thats my fault. Need to venture out to some of the south side places. Seem like they get more girls then the west end semi legits!

After 100+ visits with some of these girls, change probably for the best lol

This is where they need the 100% button ... I've likely had over 1,000 visits, and seen some of my favourites 50 or 60 times ... we are lucky here in Oakville, lots of new spas and girls to try.