Grilfriends in TJ

[Paikea]

Karla's Place,
Cubetza (I Know this is spelled wrong)
Golden Palace
La Gloria
Playboy
Delicias
La Valentina
Ducle Gabana
Amor Latino
New York

When I drink all night, I often drink in like 5 of them

 

[Sam]

Cam you mention names/locations of the smaller/local bars that you frequent/recommend in the Zona?

 

[Cool Dude]

TBG,

You know they will cut your balls off if you fuck up?

 

[Mace]

Ok, this is what happened. I went to a locals bar near the end of Revolution. Very standard bar with a couple of pool tables and a dance seforum.xxxe. Traditional Mexican ranchera music was playing and everyone in the bar were Mexicans locals (except for yours truly). Also, interesting, everyone had a gigantic 32 oz beer on their table; so I had to get one too...

There were no women there except for a older couple, in their 40s, and the husband had a leg injury and was in crutches. The wife was very active dancer and was dancing with everyone, even other older women... she saw me and ask me to dance, so we did. After the song, i sat with the woman and her husband and had a drink (this is not going where you'al think it is going). I told them that I have always been facinated with Mexico and would love to have a Mexican girlfriend. They asked me the usualy question about why not look for a Mexicana in San Diego... lots to choose from. I insisted on Mexico.

She then told me about her niece who loves Americans... she learned English by herself by watching American TV and movies and would love to meet someone like me.... let's call her I said and she did.... damn it, the girl didn't pick up and she told me to come next week at the same time and she'll bring me her niese.....

Never thought about being nice to a mid-age woman and bring you this kind of luck.... I can't wait for next time....

Until next time, stay tuned.

 

[kandy b]

TBG,

I have a piece of advice for you. Mexico is not the US, I know that TJ is a stones throw from the US, but don't think that anyone has your back down there. I have a story for you. I went to Cancum Mexico years ago. It must have been graduation trips because the hotel was full of teenagers with raging hormones (and I was sorry I stayed at the hotel I was at). But here is the interesting part of the story. We went to see the Chikenpizza (too lazy to look up the real spelling), and on our bus there were these really young, hot american girls, the type that looked like they'd squeak when you fuck them in every orafice. Anyway they were laughing about how they were stealing trinkets from one of the street carts, one would distract the vendor, and the other would snatch items. What these girls didn't know was that if they were caught, they would have experienced life changing experiences in that jail. They were stupid for acting like. I'm an Amercian, I have rights. No you don't. So back to your situation, don't let the little head take you to areas you shouldn't be. for God's sake it's pussy! Pussy is all over the place, what is the drive to go for pussy in risky areas? Think about what you are doing and be safe. Is it the pussy or the thrill of the hunt?

 

[Scott E]

Once you enter a bar, everyone is equal be it a puta bar or a civilian bar. I have lots of friends (and myself) that have had luck with chicas that they just met in a bar. One of my friends damn near never misses. Another has like 3 hotties that he met at Tzul that he plays with when he feels like it. I generally just drink and sometimes dance with the chicas. I may get a phone number, and just text with a chica. Like "where are you going tonight?" That way you know people when you go in and get even better acceptance. I found the Mexican folks to be very accommodating and accepting.

I certainly do not like the ugly Americans, but I don't see too many acting like that in Mexico.

 

[Lexicographer]

So CG, you can quote people all you want, but others can't quote you? i think the readers would agree that you are a right-wing republican who voted for George W twice and still thinks he did a great job. Enough said... hehe

i am going to ask some of the senior members of this forum, gentlemen such as Sampson, OC, Cumintj and others to official boycott CGs comments. It will be my last response to his egotisic comments.

CG, why dont you start your own thread and see what type of response you get.

I am going to visit the 2 spots that Cumintj recommended this coming Sunday and report back..... I will not play small boy neither; I am going for the home run on my first abat.

 

[Pompal 09.]

please do not compare yourself with others on this forum. you live here. you have been in tj for 12 years and presumably speak fluent spanish. like myself, when you walk into an establishment you know and the mexicanos know that you belong. at this point you dont consider yourself a gringo which is what 90 percent of the people that frequent this forum are. gringos. at and times, pinche gringos.

I can tell people here that i have no problems as well when i go to non-gringo bars and am generally accepted quickly and sometimes can throw down on my very first show(this is not the norm). in fact i did it three saturdays ago with two super cute 25-year-olds whom cumulatively couldnt speak 10 words of english.

but thats not the purpose of this thread and i understand that im not your typical gringo as i live here and make that known the second i strike up a conversation with a mexicana or mexicano.

 

[Mikhail K]

Yes consistency is the key. For some reason guys think they can venture into regular spots one time and just pick up on Mexican women.

The best plan is to lay back and work a particular spot for an extended period of time. Years, if need be. The results will be magnificent. These quick buck artists that pop up on these sex boards have little respect for the reality of people's lives. That some Mexican girl is just waiting for some gringo to save her is ridiculous.

I have a black friend who told me recently that he wanted to "bring one back" that he had sessioned with three times. I berated him about not recognizing that this girl has a life and that his 3 days in TJ meant little to her except a little money to eat on. It is a shame that some people do not recognize the humanity of Mexicans.


As you say, "pinche gringos ignorante."
LOL

CG

 

[mommy & wife]

BG,

Nice try. Until you delete the quote of my post I will reply as much as I want. And, nice try at trying to make it seem you are cool on this board. Dude, you are getting ripped on this thread!!!!!

 

[checkoutmynewemptybag]

thank you for your concern, but I will have a wing-man with me at all time, and I will be nice and offer to buy the ladies a drink to begin with. I am facinated with mexico and will not rest until I conduct further research into their social and sexual culture.

i will report back with my trip reports. All except CG are welcome to offer responses and comments

 

[kallijean]

CG. I don't know who you are or what you think you are, but you are a new comer to this forum or at least to to tj forum, so please do not attack long term contributers such as yours truly. If you disagree with what i say and can't express yourself in a civilized way then do NOT respond further to this thread, and i will do the same with your comments. i think it is better we stay away from eachother.... reader like to read about mongering experiences, not petty bigerings.

I like to appogist to all the readers who have to read about this rather than mongering and/or sexual experiences.

 

[Pompal 09.]

i was not referring to tj in my post. baja norte itself is still dominated by the sinaloa and tj cartel. anytime you walk into a bar and there is a guy that has a big ziplock bag with about 100 little bags of 120 peso 1/4 gram bags of coke, that is either a sinaloa or tj cartel bar.

everyone knows this.

as for the zetas coming to baja its only a matter of time.

for them this is not a war about drugs it is a war about power. a civil war.

they want to own mexico.

 

[Jenna H]

I normally just go in and have fun. About 6 months a group of about 10 were in a club and one of them was a bit combative and he told me they were part of the massageplanet, and I told him not to say that too loud as he may get himself and his friends killed. His friends pull him away and told him not to be a pendejo. This was not in the Zona. I know the Chapos took over the drug trade in the Zona around 2007....and I believe law enforcement has made life miserable on massageplanet and I think they only exist in small groups.

It may not be right, but actually if law enforcement lets one group work, it surely cuts down on the violence.

I am not aware on any club that is exclusive to cartels. Lots of low level cartel guys go to Las Pulgas and I am sure to that club that was once Balok....but after that I have no idea.

 

[hunny bunny]

Most nice clubs and bars if not all, are located away from the zona; as far as I know, well dressed and well behaved gringos have always been welcomed in the upper class bars and clubs; why do you recommend someone to stick only to the zona? Zona it's the sleazyest and dirtiest part of town.
Can you name any Sinaloa or Zeta bars in the area? I'm a local and I wasn't aware there were any. I grant you there are many bars where drug dealers and other thugs like to hang around but last I heard, there were no Zetas in TJ

 

[just wondering78]

In all my years in Tijuana, I have never gone to a bar that I did not feel welcome in. I will be honest and say that in my travels I have not visited one bar, as my family (Mexicans) are not drinkers. When in the Zona I stay away from Gringo bars, and go to the smaller more fun bars with all locals. There are a few other places I hit outside of the Zona and still have always been embraced by the regulars of the bars. Often I enter with a lady, but not always.

 

[rs_net]

Jeeze I dissappear from the board for six months (maybe more) and another one of these threads pop up and I just have to respond to the whole thread. Being from Latin America, having lived in Latin America, speaking the language and sharing lots of time with friends that still live in TJ, Sonora, el DF, Guatemala, Chiapas, and many more. I repeat my quote from a previous thread "how can real love start backwards? It sounds quite possibly that you had excellent chemistry with that one girl and yes it can happen it has happened to me. And yes I have even gone out and enjoyed myself with them (they are women after all) Plus for some people that are latin they would understand speaking the language knowing the culture and actually being educated can really go far in any country in Latin America with the people. Yes some Mexican women like Gringos but I'll tell you what depending on where you meet them and obviously their own preference alot of them tend to like what they would consider a good looking, successfull, educated man from their own culture or similar thats what many especially when as was mentioned here when your getting to the middle or upper class women from Mexico will prefer as that is what their family will prefer and that is huge. Put it this way spending time with some really good families en el DF they will respect you for yes what you do (profession) hence how an engineer is called ingeniero, judge (juez), business man (licenciado), and also the kind of family you come from is taken into consideration and mainly also the conduct that you have as a person. Even for a regular friend I have their to make her family feel confortable I met them for dinner at her house and obviously respected their boundries and they really liked the fact that while I am from the USA I am of their culture and we're just friends. Allot of bar girls have had bad experiences with men, single moms, issues with families dont take that for the norm of the rich Mexican culture you have barely touched the surface Tijuana is but a grain of sand in Mexico and trust me the genetic pool is not lacking and is rather rich, some of the women I met in Mexico City for example are drop dead gorgeous and I agree and will stand by what I believe that when I settle down a Mexican woman from Mexico will be what I look for. How can you meet them well what you are looking for it seems is nothing serious just a stable lets meet, go out and screw in that case stick to the bars. If you would really want something real its like anything be authentic, spend time in getting to know them, be a gentlemen, treat them like a dama, meet the family and most of all be respectful. Places can be anywhere but again it seems like you want to use the gringo status card as a means and that will not work if anything it will typically go against you (they hate that). Especially if you feel you are doing their genetic gene pool a favor I mean come on I know you mean well but how little you know of Latin America there are plenty with Spanish (white) descent to go around.

 

[rodeohottie12]

badguy-

i really do not recommend you venturing into a locals-only bar outside of the zona in tj alone at night. in fact, i do not recommend you going anywhere in tj outside the zona at night especially if you do not speak at least college-level spanish. and CG is entirely correct. if you come off with a pompous attitude in which you feel that making babies with mexicanas will improve their bloodline a mexicano may take serious offense to a statement similar to that notion. in fact, many mexicanos will take serious offense on you hitting on their women in "their bar" without spending time with them beforehand.

and if you just happen to stumble into a sinaloa or zeta bar you will probably be in serious trouble. you and everyone else here including myself.

take this from a guy who has hung out in zeta bars and have actually railed lines with them in the banos.

watch yourself and be safe.

seriously.

 

[The 4th Manimal]

Dude, it IS NOT NORMAL for Mexican women to have babies at 16. This is your second RACIST post on this thread, the one about white blood IMPROVING Mexican lives being the first. I tried being civil but you are a bigot!

You have no real respect for Mexican women or Mexicans in general. All you want is for them to DO and be what you want. When people on this thread more knowledgeable than you attempt to explain the culture, you respond with racist crap. You are a sicko that will do nothing in Mexico but be a TRICK. Yes, Mr. Gringo sugar daddy you will soon be purchasing some Mexican pimp some new clothes, paying his rent, and putting food on the table.

For the Mexican pimps I thank you. Keep up the good work GRINGO!!!!!!

CG

 

[Pompal 09.]

It seems to me that you want me to agree with you, and people are not allowed to have aneforum.xxxanistic views from the ones you express. Enough said!

The fleet market is not a good place; too close to the zona. I will venture out a bit further where I won't be label automatically as a monger like the locals. The girl in the linea told me that best thing is to have have a friend who is Mexican to shown me around town, but the problem is that all of my Mexicans friends are not from TJ, but other states.

Nevertheless, i will try. I already got some leads, and I will report back.