How to get an ex back??

[mech]

Any advice on how to get your ex back? We had a kind of weird situation develop last week and now she hasn't called me in like a week, not a fight or anything, she is just unsure of what she wants. I tried to get in touch with her a few times, but she didn't return my calls, like I said it's been a week. So I am assuming that is a break up, and I don't want to call her any more and look like a pussy and beg her to come back. Is there any other advice anyone can give me? All my friends are telling me not to call her, let her initiate the next move and take it from there...I say ok, but what if she never calls?

Thanks.

 

[prtyyngthng]

Honestly dude, I say forget it. Im not sure how easily you can meet new women but I definitely think its worth just moving on and finding someone new. Dont get the classic case of "one-itis" where you get all hung up on your chick. Branch out, meet new people and most importantly have a good time. You can thank me later when your balls deep in something new. :

 

[Pompal 09.]

Dont be a loser!! If you havent already done so.....RUN!! :twisted:

 

[Hazza]

Getting an ex back is easy, but once you have broken up even once I think the same issue that brought about the break will rear it's ugly face again and you will end up single again unless you do something really dramatic and life-changing in terms of getting her back. I have found in my relationships that once I get to the stage of telling someone I am not sure what I want- usually I just am unsure of how I should tell them that it is over for me. Keeping that in mind and as every situation and woman is different you might be able to get her back by some romantic combination of fulfilling her every desire sexually, mentally and emotionally.

I think finding out exactly why she needs space might help you to make the decision of whether or not to try to win her back and if it is even possible. Thinking about why you want this woman back in your life is also an important task- there are many risks you face accepting her back, how long can you keep her in your life before she decides this again and can you deal with this rejection yet again if it doesn't work out. If you really want to try to win her back don't ask people on sites like this for advice- a relationship therapist might be a better choice- even a close friend who knows your situation better might be a safer bet for important advice like this...

 

[James Louis]

Thanks for the great reply "Sweetest Massage."

I got to the bottom of the siutation and it appears that the stress of her professional career and some family issues were pulling her away from the relationship. I think when we are pressured from all sorts of different things in our lives we look to eleviate that stress by eliminating the stressors that we do have control over. Nobody is gonna ditch their family nor their career so the easiest thing to get rid of is the relationship. Its kind of a toxic thought process that we have to be aware of otherwise we could be pushing away the ones we love due to crappy work and family stress.

Thanks again.