Cousins girlfriend

[Homerun001]

Long story short:
We got together to watch the afternoon soccer game at my brother's house and 1 of our cousin's showed up with his 3 month girlfriend that he has been talking about with high regards, and I mean his girlfriend being successful in the financial sector and just the perfect woman. So they arrived and my heart stopped right there as I took not 1 but 3 looks at her and holy shit , she is a MPA and serviced me 2 times and she was so calm and cool and I was speechless .
My question is what should i do as in tell my cousin about her and have any of you been in this situation ? I strongly believe he has no clue about what she is really doing.

 

[Leviathan]

Book a surprise session for your cuz?

Long story short:
We got together to watch the afternoon soccer game at my brother's house and 1 of our cousin's showed up with his 3 month girlfriend that he has been talking about with high regards, and I mean his girlfriend being successful in the financial sector and just the perfect woman. So they arrived and my heart stopped right there as I took not 1 but 3 looks at her and holy shit , she is a MPA and serviced me 2 times and she was so calm and cool and I was speechless .
My question is what should i do as in tell my cousin about her and have any of you been in this situation ? I strongly believe he has no clue about what she is really doing.

 

[TheKWguy]

Long story short:
We got together to watch the afternoon soccer game at my brother's house and 1 of our cousin's showed up with his 3 month girlfriend that he has been talking about with high regards, and I mean his girlfriend being successful in the financial sector and just the perfect woman. So they arrived and my heart stopped right there as I took not 1 but 3 looks at her and holy shit , she is a MPA and serviced me 2 times and she was so calm and cool and I was speechless .
My question is what should i do as in tell my cousin about her and have any of you been in this situation ? I strongly believe he has no clue about what she is really doing.

Say absolutely nothing. do not mention anything or approach the girl. That would be a dick move of the highest order.

Girls try to move on, they even do other stuff. Some of them have regular jobs and do this on the side to make ends meet. If you felt later that she was playing him, then maybe say something. Otherwise you would be setting yourself up for drama.

 

[Leviathan]

How about if it was your adult son ? Ignorance is bliss ? LoL

Say absolutely nothing. do not mention anything or approach the girl. That would be a dick move of the highest order.

Girls try to move on, they even do other stuff. Some of them have regular jobs and do this on the side to make ends meet. If you felt later that she was playing him, then maybe say something. Otherwise you would be setting yourself up for drama.

 

[TheKWguy]

How about if it was your adult son ? Ignorance is bliss ? LoL

yes. there's no + side to talking about it so why do it?

 

[bl1tz]

You tell him. He might get pissed off and not speak to you for a wile but in the end he will thank you.
She could end up taking him to the cleaner years down the line.

 

[TheKWguy]

A girl I know at a place is working on their Masters level if finance. CFA level type shit. She worked a long time as well. I don't give a fuck what they did in the past as long as they do right by the relationship from here and now.

Wait and see.

 

[Homerun001]

A girl I know at a place is working on their Masters level if finance. CFA level type shit. She worked a long time as well. I don't give a fuck what they did in the past as long as they do right from here and now.

Wait and see.

I have seen her 8 days ago and she is older and has been in the biz for a few years.. I'm not looking for any drama it's the last thing I want especially family drama and that would expose my hobby.. I am thinking of maybe confronting her to talk about it because I am pretty sure my cuz has no clue..

 

[Nanziqi]

I have seen her 8 days ago and she is older and has been in the biz for a few years.. I'm not looking for any drama it's the last thing I want especially family drama and that would expose my hobby.. I am thinking of maybe confronting her to talk about it because I am pretty sure my cuz has no clue..

I think that is a better idea talk to her first and see what she have to say.And depending how it goes then talk to your cousin.

 

[bl1tz]

You getting yourself involved in a bad situation.
The more time goes by the more you're involved. If few years down the line she does something to him and he finds out you knew about it and didn't say anything....Now what?
It's family , he's only been dating this girl for few months. If kids are involved or marriage it would be different.

 

[bl1tz]

You can always let him find it out without knowing it was you.
There's ways around it.

 

[Leviathan]

Maybe cuz knows but hides it . Where did they meet? LoL

 

[Homerun001]

You can always let him find it out without knowing it was you.
There's ways around it.

What ways around it ? She would know it was me I am pretty sure and then what, she could make up stories and make me look bad

 

[TheKWguy]

What ways around it ? She would know it was me I am pretty sure and then what, she could make up stories and make me look bad

Bingo. Avoid it man.

Imagine the implication of your hobby being exposed. Fuck your cousin, don't even bring this up. The two worlds should never collide. This is why girls never work in the same city they live in (if they have a brain). You'll see people from all the surrounding towns working in Toronto. people from east and west coast flying in to work a season and then go back home. Pretend you never saw her and forget about it.

 

[Homerun001]

Maybe cuz knows but hides it . Where did they meet? LoL

From what I know they met at sherway gardens she had a problem with her BMW he helped her out and the rest is history . Cuz is divorced with 2 small children and I don't think he knows he is a straight shooter and hates drama. I could be wrong but I think he has no clue.

 

[TheKWguy]

From what I know they met at sherway gardens she had a problem with her BMW he helped her out and the rest is history . Cuz is divorced with 2 small children and I don't think he knows he is a straight shooter and hates drama. I could be wrong but I think he has no clue.

He's never going to be able to meet anyone. Trust me i'm an older guy and there's no "singles only" cruise or bingo hall where you can meet like minded people. It's like highschool but worse because everyone's jaded or super super horny in a bad way. Let him be happy, he's got a great girlfriend.

If you let him know, it will crush his emotions and put him into a situation where he has to KNOWINGLY accept or confront the issue.

 

[snoopdoggie]

Long story short:

We got together to watch the afternoon soccer game at my brother's house and 1 of our cousin's showed up with his 3 month girlfriend that he has been talking about with high regards, and I mean his girlfriend being successful in the financial sector and just the perfect woman. So they arrived and my heart stopped right there as I took not 1 but 3 looks at her and holy shit , she is a MPA and serviced me 2 times and she was so calm and cool and I was speechless .
My question is what should i do as in tell my cousin about her and have any of you been in this situation ? I strongly believe he has no clue about what she is really doing.

Can you give us a review of this lady? Many thanks.

 

[bl1tz]

Can you g

Can you give us a review of this lady? Many thanks.

Lol

 

[TheKWguy]

Can you g

Can you give us a review of this lady? Many thanks.

lol snoop what an ass haha

 

[TheKWguy]

Seriously though, imagine your a regular divorced guy with 2 kids. Every day you grind and then you help a beautiful lady out and bam she thinks your a gentleman, a guy that isn't after her pussy, that treats her well. They hit it off, click all that jazz.

You come around and you tell him. He's going to sit there worried about her, worried about their relationship, about all the dicks/guys/service the seedy underbelly of this industry. You think he'll be able to come back from that? What you should be worried about is her reading the thread