Falling in love with TJ hooker at andelitas

[nobodys home]

Like everyone here is saying, go down there and have fun, but what happens in Mexico stays in Mexico!
Happy Mongering!

 

[Cypriot Princess]

Another thing to think about.....these girls are just "acting". They have numerous "customers" day in and day out, and they have to put on this fresh show for each, make that guy feel special. After awhile, it plays on their mind. Even if they wanted a normal relationship, it probably ain't gonna happen from a guy they meet "at work"! Unfortunately for them, I think it eventually makes it very difficult, if not impossible, for them to really know how to have an intimate relationship. So yeah, the bars are not the place to find your true love! The odds are way against you.

I spent over 20 years in the Navy and have seen this play out all over Asia and down here in TJ (where, at 17, I lost my cherry at the El Baron down by the bullring some 40 plus years ago! I used to spend my paycheck in the back room of Mike's Bar and fell in love with a dancer named Celia next door at the La Conga. Good memories!!). As they say, the worst piece of ass I ever had was absolutely wonderful!

 

[Luann]

Dang Guys,

Man you depressed the fuck out of me. Believe me i thought about all that shit. But what topped the cake. My friends at work are filipeno and there the ones that told me about TJ and picking up hookers and stuff. When i come back and told them about this girl one guy said he had a friend that felt like me. And he was from the filipenes so he sympathiezed with teh hooker and fell in love. He eventually got her over here. No sooner did guys off the street recognize her and before you know it shes having sex for money right here in the US right inside the guys house. So that really turned me off. She was ungrateful and didnt care about anything more then money. I guess you guys are right they only see $$$ and thats it.

I also see so many mexicans struggle out here. They think USA is some sort of gold mine. They dont understand that everything is also way more expensive and they are going to be in the same poverty here as over there. Only the cops here actually do there job. LOL I figure once one of these girls realize how hard it is to survive on a regular paying job they will want to go back to hookering.

 

[SweetasanAngel]

If you do manage to bring her into the USA,In two months she will become a true American girl.That means no bj,sex,cooking,laundry....heck she will spend most of her day bitching and watching Opera..........Kapish...

 

[Charly Hayes]

Hondablaster,

You're already helping her out by going to Adelitas and picking her over the other talent. So everytime you visit her, she's $60.00 (or whatever she keeps) richer. Keep in mind everyone of these TJ (and AMP) hookers has their own sad story. While she may seem like girlfriend material to you, in reality, she may have kids and about 100 cousins all over Mexico to feed.

I've had my fair share of favorites at Adelitas, Chicago, and some other AMPs throughout So Cal and Asia. They would tell me stuff like they do this kind of work so that they can pay for school. So everytime I'd go down and get laid, I'm supporting the poor hottie's education. Another way to justify it. And the more I visit my favorites, the hotter the sex gets.

 

[Reiki Chick]

The same applies in TJ as it does in Juarez I am sure. Some guy goes down for a bit of fun, has great sex with a sweety and falls for her. Then he wants to "rescue" her from a life of depravity all the while she is loving all the sex and money she is having. She is also playing the guy for all it is worth and tapping his money as well.

Don't get me wrong, I am not knocking a guy for having feelings but you have to keep things in perspective. Remember where and and under what circumstances you met her.

I see no problem of you seeing her again but do yourself the favor and don't go gangbuster loco for this girl. Enjoy her and TJ just the same.

Be careful and good luck.

 

[nibinaearr]

Hondablaster:

What, have you got a screw loose someplace? Look, amigo, she's a working girl. She does this for a living. She's interested in any relationship that DOES NOT involve getting the crap slapped out of her on a regular basis, and that pays her money one way or another. DO NOT get involved in some scheme to get married temporairily and bring her home with you. INS is wise, as is IRS, and she can sue for divorce. Want to pay alimony for 18 years or so? And then, surprise-surpise, she's pregnant. Guess who gets to pay child support?

Get a grip and go get laid a dozen times or so, and you'll be over this one.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Hey guys for the first time i went to TJ and banged a hooker. I wasnt all that desperate for i can find some Ok kinda ugly girls here. In adelitas i was approached several times. But one girl i found to be irresistable. 7/9/05 She had a white spagehetti strap top and a green skirt. The kind white girls where in the summer. I dont know but i started to fall in love with her smile. and her eyes. She told me in the room she only does it because she wants enough money to go the the United State. Me and my two buddies both agree that man that would be something to marry a hooker just to get her over. My friend called me the next morning saying if he didnt have a girl friend he would be plotting to sneak her over.

She give me a kiss on the cheeck before i serparted paths in the room. I want to see her but to offer her help. I dont speak good spanish at all its really messed up spanish but i think im in love.