New here not sure what to expect !

[krayjee]

If anyone worrying about STD, this hobby is not for you. Don’t get out of your house and walk around , you might get hit by a strayed bullets or drunk drivers

 

[Lalallala]

I don't know, when I started, I didn't know this existed, so I spent the first 3 or 4 years navigating this process myself and lots of rookie mistakes (some times still make them, ha!).
But, to be fair, ChatGPT could give you all the information needed today ... so, seems that. little reading is in order.

Enjoy the long weekend gents!

to be clear, even if you use a cover, there's still a small chance of transmission of some STIs. mostly in cases where the STI can infect other tissue that isn't covered.

 

[JustARelaxingEvent]

Dumb question, but I'm hoping you guys can enlighten me, When do you tip? Say if i went to Z-One, do i tip the masseuse or tip at the front desk?

 

[Surgeon1936]

Dumb question, but I'm hoping you guys can enlighten me, When do you tip? Say if i went to Z-One, do i tip the masseuse or tip at the front desk?

What definition of the tip? To reward person who provide with service to you.So you pay tip to masseuse

 

[Lalallala]

Dumb question, but I'm hoping you guys can enlighten me, When do you tip? Say if i went to Z-One, do i tip the masseuse or tip at the front desk?

I usually tip at the end. Sometimes the girl would ask before or during session. I hate it when they do it during - it just kills the mood. So if I am there for something specific then I would ask up front and pay the tip at the beginning.

 

[Surgeon1936]

I usually tip at the end. Sometimes the girl would ask before or during session. I hate it when they do it during - it just kills the mood. So if I am there for something specific then I would ask up front and pay the tip at the beginning.

i always pay tip at the beginning especially when I come for first visit. it's always break the ice and make my session better

 

[Lalallala]

i always pay tip at the beginning especially when I come for first visit. it's always break the ice and make my session better

Yeah. I sometimes do that with someone thar I am sure about. But lately some of the newbs are nothing but disappointment.

 

[Surgeon1936]

Yeah. I sometimes do that with someone thar I am sure about. But lately some of the newbs are nothing but disappointment.

you are right some of the new girls in 2 words just " bad"

 

[Stingrayman98]

Guys ... listen

I understand what you're saying , some may have it or some may not. But can't you be like "bro' before hoes" saying .

Example- hey new guy this girl gave me gonorrhoea 6 weeks ago at this spa and her name is ....... should stay away from her. Or this girl gave me genital herpes 3 months ago @ this spa ....

That's why I'm trying to say. Shouldn't we help each other out ?

I don't know why I'm getting carved by all you guys . Sundance you actually cool so far . Other guys on my ass ! Why?


Like I said so far I only done HANDJOB, but some of these girls are sexy and may want them naked , I understand naked comes with risk but most of the STD you can cure expect for the big one nobody wants ... HIV?! And I bet you most of them have never got a test done in their life. I don't think be being safe is a bad thing . Do you guys know what I'm talking . Yes I'm the new guy with very little experience at these massage places . And yes these woman love money it's a business I get it , but they should be checking no?

Anyways don't hate me , give me a break .

Thanks

 

[Sundance69]

Dumb question, but I'm hoping you guys can enlighten me, When do you tip? Say if i went to Z-One, do i tip the masseuse or tip at the front desk?

You pay the room fee generally when you arrive to the manager or attendant or the masseuse. After the massage you tip the masseuse privately.
Sometimes, you will pay for everything at the end if you are known to them.

Tipping fees - HE $50, topless HE $60, naked BS $80, naked more fun $100 // add'll services if available (not often, but you can ask, $120 to $160 generally).

 

[burldude12]

On my god... now a naked girl give you a std.

On this site hoes come before bros.

Collect stamps or coins, much safer.

 

[Sundance69]

Guys ... listen

I understand what you're saying , some may have it or some may not. But can't you be like "bro' before hoes" saying .

Example- hey new guy this girl gave me gonorrhoea 6 weeks ago at this spa and her name is ....... should stay away from her. Or this girl gave me genital herpes 3 months ago @ this spa ....

That's why I'm trying to say. Shouldn't we help each other out ?

I don't know why I'm getting carved by all you guys . Sundance you actually cool so far . Other guys on my ass ! Why?


Like I said so far I only done HANDJOB, but some of these girls are sexy and may want them naked , I understand naked comes with risk but most of the STD you can cure expect for the big one nobody wants ... HIV?! And I bet you most of them have never got a test done in their life. I don't think be being safe is a bad thing . Do you guys know what I'm talking . Yes I'm the new guy with very little experience at these massage places . And yes these woman love money it's a business I get it , but they should be checking no?

Anyways don't hate me , give me a break .

Thanks

I've been doing this a long time, and many members here much longer ... I've never had any concerns or problems (remember this is how they make money, both the spas and the girls can't have this).
So, if you feel a girl is not clear or dirty, then govern yourself accordingly. Most of the girls are cleaner and more health conscious than YOU are!

There is a reason many have model like figures. Suffice to say, I've never had a problem, nor have I heard anything directly about this ... yet I am aware on occasion this does occur. It's not a daily consideration.
Go out there and have some fun, girls are lovely and treat them well, be nice, be clean and tip them well. Hard work and most of us are lucky to have them in our area.

 

[Stingrayman98]

I've been doing this a long time, and many members here much longer ... I've never had any concerns or problems (remember this is how they make money, both the spas and the girls can't have this).
So, if you feel a girl is not clear or dirty, then govern yourself accordingly. Most of the girls are cleaner and more health conscious than YOU are!

There is a reason many have model like figures. Suffice to say, I've never had a problem, nor have I heard anything directly about this ... yet I am aware on occasion this does occur. It's not a daily consideration.
Go out there and have some fun, girls are lovely and treat them well, be nice, be clean and tip them well. Hard work and most of us are lucky to have them in our area.

Thanks man will do!!! I will post a review

 

[Lalallala]

I've been doing this a long time, and many members here much longer ... I've never had any concerns or problems (remember this is how they make money, both the spas and the girls can't have this).
So, if you feel a girl is not clear or dirty, then govern yourself accordingly. Most of the girls are cleaner and more health conscious than YOU are!

There is a reason many have model like figures. Suffice to say, I've never had a problem, nor have I heard anything directly about this ... yet I am aware on occasion this does occur. It's not a daily consideration.
Go out there and have some fun, girls are lovely and treat them well, be nice, be clean and tip them well. Hard work and most of us are lucky to have them in our area.

I think I’ve heard of girls having problems, and a few girls I’ve talked to don’t really know much about STIs. And most guys don’t even bother educating themselves.

I made a post about where to get tested for free.

ETA: Link to the thread

L

Thread 'How often do you get tested?'

Nov 18, 2024

This is specifically for those of us who like a little bbbj and/or daty/dato - how often do you get tested?

I’ve been indulging in this for a few months now and while I haven’t had symptoms of anything, I figure I should get tested since I do enjoy bbbj and daty.

Last encounter was last night, so according to teletest.ca I should wait until Nov 30 to get tested for chlamydia and gonorrhea. The default for teletest is for blood test but I am trying to get a mouth swab.

So question for the rest of you - how often do you get tested and how do you get tested? If at all.

I guess for the...

• Lalallala
• Replies: 18
• Forum: Chit Chat

• 

Also while many guys will claim they haven’t had issues, it’s well documented that sex workers do have higher incidence of STIs. Definitely getting a HJ is on the lower end of the scale - but there’s still a minute chance. Eg she gives a HJ to a guy that is shedding the HSV virus. If she doesn’t clean well enough or there is some other transfer, you may get the HSV virus on you. Even then it’s a low chance of a low chance. But the risk is not zero.

 

[JustARelaxingEvent]

You pay the room fee generally when you arrive to the manager or attendant or the masseuse. After the massage you tip the masseuse privately.
Sometimes, you will pay for everything at the end if you are known to them.

Tipping fees - HE $50, topless HE $60, naked BS $80, naked more fun $100 // add'll services if available (not often, but you can ask, $120 to $160 generally).

Thank you! I have my first session today, and I did my homework based on all the reviews here!

 

[Stingrayman98]

I think I’ve heard of girls having problems, and a few girls I’ve talked to don’t really know much about STIs. And most guys don’t even bother educating themselves.

I made a post about where to get tested for free.

ETA: Link to the thread

L

Thread 'How often do you get tested?'

Nov 18, 2024

This is specifically for those of us who like a little bbbj and/or daty/dato - how often do you get tested?

I’ve been indulging in this for a few months now and while I haven’t had symptoms of anything, I figure I should get tested since I do enjoy bbbj and daty.

Last encounter was last night, so according to teletest.ca I should wait until Nov 30 to get tested for chlamydia and gonorrhea. The default for teletest is for blood test but I am trying to get a mouth swab.

So question for the rest of you - how often do you get tested and how do you get tested? If at all.

I guess for the...

• Lalallala
• Replies: 18
• Forum: Chit Chat

• 

Also while many guys will claim they haven’t had issues, it’s well documented that sex workers do have higher incidence of STIs. Definitely getting a HJ is on the lower end of the scale - but there’s still a minute chance. Eg she gives a HJ to a guy that is shedding the HSV virus. If she doesn’t clean well enough or there is some other transfer, you may get the HSV virus on you. Even then it’s a low chance of a low chance. But the risk is not zero.

Hey I understand and right now I'm not worried about a HANDJOB. Me myself I get tested every 3-6 months full blood panel...

Gonorrhoea and chlamydia urine sample
Hepatitis B and C, syphilis and HIV... blood test ! I have been with loads of woman in my life and never had a std . Now I'm trying something new and want to try sex workers, massage workers potentially( I'm done dating regular woman right now ) . All I'm saying is I know some of them aren't trying to infect people on purpose . But shouldn't the spa owner ask them to get blood work done , or is that discrimination of abuse ?

Also I just googled and there is like 100's of spa in highway 7 and Toronto and GTA AREA. Gotta be at least 10,000 women working for money . I get it it's a business . But you think someone might have it and never got tested . They might see there doctor for a physical exam or routine blood work . But it won't show those unless you ask for those specific tests . They should get treated and then come back to work!!! If they have something.

Am I being a paranoid crazy person or am I being reasonable here ? Once again I'm not trying to ruffle and feathers here and stir the pot ... just something to be aware of .

 

[Lalallala]

Hey I understand and right now I'm not worried about a HANDJOB. Me myself I get tested every 3-6 months full blood panel...

Gonorrhoea and chlamydia urine sample
Hepatitis B and C, syphilis and HIV... blood test ! I have been with loads of woman in my life and never had a std . Now I'm trying something new and want to try sex workers, massage workers potentially( I'm done dating regular woman right now ) . All I'm saying is I know some of them aren't trying to infect people on purpose . But shouldn't the spa owner ask them to get blood work done , or is that discrimination of abuse ?

Also I just googled and there is like 100's of spa in highway 7 and Toronto and GTA AREA. Gotta be at least 10,000 women working for money . I get it it's a business . But you think someone might have it and never got tested . They might see there doctor for a physical exam or routine blood work . But it won't show those unless you ask for those specific tests . They should get treated and then come back to work!!! If they have something.

Am I being a paranoid crazy person or am I being reasonable here ? Once again I'm not trying to ruffle and feathers here and stir the pot ... just something to be aware of .

Well, I definitely know of workers that have been infected by customers. But they have taken some time off, got their infection addressed and are back to work. And if you have been with a number of partners then chances are you have HPV, whether you know it or not, since like 70% of the population has been infected. The riskiest activities involve a lot of fluid exchange so avoid that and you are safer.

This doesn’t even address other issues like fungal infections (athletes foot for instance) or parasites (eg bed bugs, lice etc).

 

[burldude12]

Hey I understand and right now I'm not worried about a HANDJOB. Me myself I get tested every 3-6 months full blood panel...

Gonorrhoea and chlamydia urine sample
Hepatitis B and C, syphilis and HIV... blood test ! I have been with loads of woman in my life and never had a std . Now I'm trying something new and want to try sex workers, massage workers potentially( I'm done dating regular woman right now ) . All I'm saying is I know some of them aren't trying to infect people on purpose . But shouldn't the spa owner ask them to get blood work done , or is that discrimination of abuse ?

Also I just googled and there is like 100's of spa in highway 7 and Toronto and GTA AREA. Gotta be at least 10,000 women working for money . I get it it's a business . But you think someone might have it and never got tested . They might see there doctor for a physical exam or routine blood work . But it won't show those unless you ask for those specific tests . They should get treated and then come back to work!!! If they have something.

Am I being a paranoid crazy person or am I being reasonable here ? Once again I'm not trying to ruffle and feathers here and stir the pot ... just something to be aware of .

Bullshit dump fuck liying POS

You initial post says you have been with 1 woman only... now you have been with many. You are just wasting time with your nonsense.

 

[JustARelaxingEvent]

Guys ... listen

I understand what you're saying , some may have it or some may not. But can't you be like "bro' before hoes" saying .

Example- hey new guy this girl gave me gonorrhoea 6 weeks ago at this spa and her name is ....... should stay away from her. Or this girl gave me genital herpes 3 months ago @ this spa ....

That's why I'm trying to say. Shouldn't we help each other out ?

I don't know why I'm getting carved by all you guys . Sundance you actually cool so far . Other guys on my ass ! Why?


Like I said so far I only done HANDJOB, but some of these girls are sexy and may want them naked , I understand naked comes with risk but most of the STD you can cure expect for the big one nobody wants ... HIV?! And I bet you most of them have never got a test done in their life. I don't think be being safe is a bad thing . Do you guys know what I'm talking . Yes I'm the new guy with very little experience at these massage places . And yes these woman love money it's a business I get it , but they should be checking no?

Anyways don't hate me , give me a break .

Thanks

Honestly, I asked a basic question and everyone responded supportively. The reason you're seeing pushback is because your repeated challenges come across as dismissive of the explanations given. From the overall responses, it seems the general consensus is that this is safe and if its not people let you know with reviews.

 

[Stingrayman98]

Well, I definitely know of workers that have been infected by customers. But they have taken some time off, got their infection addressed and are back to work. And if you have been with a number of partners then chances are you have HPV, whether you know it or not, since like 70% of the population has been infected. The riskiest activities involve a lot of fluid exchange so avoid that and you are safer.

This doesn’t even address other issues like fungal infections (athletes foot for instance) or parasites (eg bed bugs, lice etc).

Yes brother you are correct . I could have HPV without knowing I understand that . BUT I never have any symptoms . Usually spreads easily when you have a blister or ulcer . Most of the others ones you can tell from testing .

Seems like I'm pissing some people off and that's not my intention . Lol