Sex workers: Don't talk about money

[Ursus]

Almost every sex-worker I meet, at some point, talks about how important money is to her. She talks about how she needs to do 'this job' to make money. She talks about how money pays for things in life and that she needs to save her money in order to afford the things she wants. She talks about how she doesn't want to work hard at another job and she talks about all the things she buys with the easy money.

This is a big NO-NO from a guy's standpoint. Guys make a tremendous effort to come see you girls. We work long hours, drive long distances and invest a tremendous amount of time to make the appt happen. When we are doing so much to make the appt happen, and then we hear a sex-worker talk about money, money, money; it makes us second guess whether or not we should be parting with our money so easily. It makes us second guess our expenditure on you.

I was scheduled to see a girl yesterday. We had the appt planned, but leading up to the appt, we were talking about general things. Unfortunately, she kept mentioning how important money is to her and how she has to think about making money and saving money for her future. She talked, as almost every sex-worker does, about how much money she makes and how the job is irreplaceable.

So, in essence, she is telling me that she is:

a) rich
b) has a great job
c) doesn't want to spend her own money
d) wants others to spend money on her so that she can save for her future

Basically, she is telling me she is a selfish gold-digger. Well, that type of attitude is a turn off for me. I cancelled the appt and told her that like her, I needed to save money and think about my future and that I couldn't follow through on the appt because it cost me too much. Yes, as expected, her reaction was not pleasent.

It always amazes me that sex-workers talk like this to their paying customers. So, I wanted to advise sex workers that read this forum to not be so stupid and do as this girl did with me.

To draw a parallel, it wouldn't be wise for a car salesman who sells MB to tell his cleints that he is unwilling to buy a MB and that he wants to save his money and buy a less expensive car. Dealers give their salespeople a car benefit for a reason, so the salesperson can show the client that he too, as a salesperson, endorses the lifestyle that he is pitching to the customer.

My new policy, going forward is: If the girl talks about her love of money, I will do the same and not book her. I will, essentially, choose money over her.

The sex-worker will try to shame you and embarass you by claiming that most of her clients are wealthy and that they have no problem paying her appt fees. This isn't true, obviously. Even a man who makes double the average salary per year can't easily afford to visit a sex worker too often. Even a man making $150.000 per annum - 3 times the average salary- doesn't have much money left over each month after paying all taxes, housing costs, car costs, food and other obligations. Don't let the girl trick you with the 'other guys' nonsense. Either she is stupid or she is playing you with such a comment.

 

[IronHearted]

If you're chatting with escort before appointment, you probably need a life.

 

[Ursus]

If you're chatting with escort before appointment, you probably need a life.

Thanks Quickdraw.

 

[topo112]

They drive nice cars, buy nice shoes, their boyfriends enjoy all that plus everything bb including the trip to the islands, and poor johns pay for all that. But usually girls are good looking and wouldn't date average Johns. So it's an "offer and demand "situation, and poor Johns end up giving their hard earned money to them. Such is life!

 

[IronHearted]

They drive nice cars, buy nice shoes, their boyfriends enjoy all that plus everything bb including the trip to the islands, and poor johns pay for all that. But usually girls are good looking and wouldn't date average Johns. So it's an "offer and demand "situation, and poor Johns end up giving their hard earned money to them. Such is life!

Actually "poor johns" pay for cheap whores, if one works for minimum wage, he can probably see escort once a month.

 

[Ursus]

They drive nice cars, buy nice shoes, their boyfriends enjoy all that plus everything bb including the trip to the islands, and poor johns pay for all that. But usually girls are good looking and wouldn't date average Johns. So it's an "offer and demand "situation, and poor Johns end up giving their hard earned money to them. Such is life!

If you go to China, you will see very pretty Chinese girls. Trust me when I tell you that you aren't trading up in life by booking a Toronto-are sex-worker.

Most toronto area sex-workers are below average when compared to the regular civilian girls.

Don't misunderstand me, for I am ugly as piss, but even I can easily get better looking women from the civilia population than what most sex workers present. At least 40% of the time that I visit a sex worker, I think of suggesting to her that she pay me for sex since I am used to banging hotter civilian girls.

Sophia from Kelly Girls was hotter than the typical civilian girl. Daniella Awesome is better than the typical civilian girl. But, most of the girls are below average.

 

[Ursus]

Actually "poor johns" pay for cheap whores, if one works for minimum wage, he can probably see escort once a month.

If he lives at home with his parents, then yes, that is true. If he has a mortgage, a car payment and other obligations, no way he can afford to hobby.

 

[topo112]

Actually "poor johns" pay for cheap whores, if one works for minimum wage, he can probably see escort once a month.

Poor not in the economic sense but in the fact they HAVE to pay for it. Like they have no choice if they want to score they have to pay cause otherwise jerking off would be the only option. Ideally nobody would've pay with their hard earned coins. I don't pay mortgage nor car payments and still it hurts paying for it, ha ha.

 

[Ursus]

1. Every man pays for it except maybe black pimps who run girls for business purposes, which is not most of us.

2. You can always get a good looking girl. Travel, live life and you will see the opportunities are endless.

Remember, you are the prize, not the girl. When I visit an escort, she is the lucky one.

 

[topo112]

If you go to China, you will see very pretty Chinese girls. Trust me when I tell you that you aren't trading up in life by booking a Toronto-are sex-worker.

Most toronto area sex-workers are below average when compared to the regular civilian girls.

Don't misunderstand me, for I am ugly as piss, but even I can easily get better looking women from the civilia population than what most sex workers present. At least 40% of the time that I visit a sex worker, I think of suggesting to her that she pay me for sex since I am used to banging hotter civilian girls.

Sophia from Kelly Girls was hotter than the typical civilian girl. Daniella Awesome is better than the typical civilian girl. But, most of the girls are below average.

When a western guy goes to China of course he's gonna score with great looking chicks since they hope the western guy is gonna take them out of there. It's like when great looking chicks from the east ask for dates in those phone date sites, how come good looking orientals already here don't ask us for dates? Cause they're already here, haha.

 

[Ursus]

I don't pay mortgage nor car payments and still it hurts paying for it, ha ha.

Do you have a secret as to how you can get by without paying for housing or transportation?

 

[Ursus]

When a western guy goes to China of course he's gonna score with great looking chicks since they hope the western guy is gonna take them out of there. It's like when great looking chicks from the east ask for dates in those phone date sites, how come good looking orientals already here don't ask us for dates? Cause they're already here, haha.

Most Chinese girls have more money than the Western men they bang. The HK girls don't interact with whites because their culture teaches them that white men are beneath them. The mainland Chinese girls will interact with you. I met my wife in Canada. I met my girlfriend in mainland China. Just go and talk to them and you will see how easy it is to get a better looking girl.

 

[topo112]

Do you have a secret as to how you can get by without paying for housing or transportation?

I started young, that's all. And my car is still in good condition and I work on it if needed , otherwise I'll take it to a mechanic friend of mine.

 

[topo112]

Most Chinese girls have more money than the Western men they bang. The HK girls don't interact with whites because their culture teaches them that white men are beneath them. The mainland Chinese girls will interact with you. I met my wife in Canada. I met my girlfriend in mainland China. Just go and talk to them and you will see how easy it is to get a better looking girl.

I may as well start learning chinese them, i don't think most chinese girls from the provinces are rich, but I know they're very nice. I'd love to go, perhaps next year. Thanks Ursus.

 

[Ursus]

I have never met a poor Chinese woman. I guess they are less common than Unicorns.

And the Canadian govt won't let poor Chinese into the country, so anyone you meet in Canada of Chinese background has money.

 

[Hangdai]

I love to see Asian ladies, not only are they the sexiest, prettiest, and provide the best service, but they usually don't speak English well.

Avoids these kinds of mood killing conversations, well, actually avoids any kind of conversation unless your willing to play act it out, lol.

Regarding making easy money, I equate their job to one like a professional athlete, the easy good money is only available for a limited, relatively short period of time in their career, they have to make the best of it.

Now if only I could of made it on the PGA tour for 5-10 years, now that is some easy money.

 

[Deyannis]

If you guys have any semblance of a brain, you'll read this in its entirety and then tell us how you feel about retiring a beautiful woman by the time she's 30 (in the sense that YOUR money gives her a nice home, completely paid off).
https://medium.com/matter/sex-is-sex-but-money-is-money-e7c10091713f

 

[Ursus]

The point I was making is that it is off-putting to hear a lady constantly talk about 'I need to make money, I need save money, I don't want to spend any money, please pay for me because I need to save my money etc. etc. etc.

AND THEN

She asks you to spend all your money on her!!

Just fucking stupid beyond belief. So, I canceled my appt with her because I took her advice about the importance of money.

If you went to a restaurant and was served by a waitress that kept saying to you: I need tips, I need to make more money on tips, tips are everything to me, tips are all I care about etc. you would be less likely to tip her well. If, on the other hand, she shut her fucking mouth and showed you some respect as a customer, you would probably tip her more.

 

[Deyannis]

The point I was making is that it is off-putting to hear a lady constantly talk about 'I need to make money, I need save money, I don't want to spend any money, please pay for me because I need to save my money etc. etc. etc.

AND THEN

She asks you to spend all your money on her!!

Just fucking stupid beyond belief. So, I canceled my appt with her because I took her advice about the importance of money.

If you went to a restaurant and was served by a waitress that kept saying to you: I need tips, I need to make more money on tips, tips are everything to me, tips are all I care about etc. you would be less likely to tip her well. If, on the other hand, she shut her fucking mouth and showed you some respect as a customer, you would probably tip her more.

Read my link.

 

[Ursus]

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