Still seeing escorts and massage girls

[luvasians]

I would not trust the guy, Let him know that you are still keeping in touch with some of your old fuck buddies and see how he reacts, Time to move on imho

 

[Boston Man Chowder]

Ok guys honest opinions, guy I have been seeing has been in past with escorts and massage girls. He says he hasnt been with any since beginning of this year when we started seeing one another..however he is still chatting on social media with them . Let me tell you sex is off the charts with him, I've done everything he wants and more. I'm confident about those needs between us being met but a little unnerving this continual chat and the odd texts I've seen. So in your hobbyist opinions do you think he would still be getting together with escorts and massage girls regardless of our sexual relationship.

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If what you have with him is a committed relationship built on more than just dynamite sex, then you should take an All or Nothing approach. You can't forbid him from seeing SPs and MPAs but accept him chatting it up with these ladies online. It just raises too many questions about his commitment to you and the level of satisfaction he gets out of your relationship. Did he really stop having sessions the moment you two started dating? Is the sex really as "off the charts" as you say it is? These are doubts brought about by the fact that he still communicates with sex workers. There is nothing innocent about their playful banter.

If he cannot flush this hobby out of his system, then he's not ready for the kind of relationship you seem to want and it would be in your best interest to move on.

 

[Deleted member 64273]

Ok guys honest opinions, guy I have been seeing has been in past with escorts and massage girls. He says he hasnt been with any since beginning of this year when we started seeing one another..however he is still chatting on social media with them . Let me tell you sex is off the charts with him, I've done everything he wants and more. I'm confident about those needs between us being met but a little unnerving this continual chat and the odd texts I've seen. So in your hobbyist opinions do you think he would still be getting together with escorts and massage girls regardless of our sexual relationship.

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Without knowing too much more about the situation, there's two possible scenarios in my mind. A - He's the kind of guy who "collects" and like to keep in contact with the ladies he's had good times with and sees them as people and likes the continued contact flirt and chats. B - He's the kind of guy who needs a plan B (see what I did there), and these continued texts and chats are his way of ensuring the sex continues if anything happens between you. Speaking as a long time hobbyist, a man's need is never fully met by just one woman. We hobby because we crave variety. If it were just sex, well, the actual sensations of sex is pretty much the same no matter who you're with, but the variety ie, different colours and tastes and personalities, this is what make is hard for guys like us to be satisfied with just one woman. For your continued happiness, you need to ask yourself if you're ok with this and with the possibility that he might "cheat" on you with an escort or MPA, and if he does, up to what point are you ok with. For example, if he see's a MPA, there's no guarantee of sex and he could be indulging in the variety he craves but is saving the sex for you. I don't know about you, but I know most women would probably NOT be ok with their guy going to MPAs and seeing escorts, which is why most guys don't tell their SOs about the hobby. But, since you know, and you seem like a fairly open minded woman, you'll have to decide for yourself what the line is. Good luck!

 

[Chivas Regal]

squirrel hunter, are you in the business? Looking for some context here.

 

[johnbuyba]

me personally, i don't talk to women unless its for work or for sex, so if he isn't working with them, the motive is probably something else...

 

[squirrelhunter1]

squirrel hunter, are you in the business? Looking for some context here.

Well I guess I am vicariously since my boyfriend seems to be

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[Deleted member 64273]

Here's a thought. Maybe you can blow his mind and do a duo with him with a lady-friendly MPA or SP!

 

[squirrelhunter1]

Here's a thought. Maybe you can blow his mind and do a duo with him with a lady-friendly MPA or SP!

I have suggested that in past since the inevitable 3 some came up...he said no he wants to the threesome to be with a non paid person...someone civvy I believe was the term. I just done have those kinda friends to participate in those activities.. specifically he wants a threesome but wants a 3rd party(girl,) to watch me give him a hand/blow job. Not have sex with the other girl.

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[Chivas Regal]

I have suggested that in past since the inevitable 3 some came up...he said no he wants to the threesome to be with a non paid person...someone civvy I believe was the term. I just done have those kinda friends to participate in those activities.. specifically he wants a threesome but wants a 3rd party(girl,) to watch me give him a hand/blow job. Not have sex with the other girl.

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Is he ok?
I mean really, what kinda dude doesn't want a full on 3some? BTW, I meant were/are you an MPA or escort when you met?

 

[felixami]

how did u 2 meet?
was ur interest in him initially just sexual?
then it turned more serious?

 

[squirrelhunter1]

Is he ok?
I mean really, what kinda dude doesn't want a full on 3some? BTW, I meant were/are you an MPA or escort when you met?

Noooo I'm not in that industry. WE met like regular people do nowadays...online. But he did date a massage girl for three months in his past...she turned crazy apparently

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[squirrelhunter1]

how did u 2 meet?
was ur interest in him initially just sexual?
then it turned more serious?

Regular online meet...dated only 3 times before first sex. Typical i think for people these days. Yes, relationship is very sexual but has been more serious over the last 5 months, but early in relationship we had the exclusivity talk and I held to that part.. I even asked him if he wanted an open relationship about half way through seeing him he said absolutely not.

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[squirrelhunter1]

Is he ok?
I mean really, what kinda dude doesn't want a full on 3some? BTW, I meant were/are you an MPA or escort when you met?

Oh and yes I was surprised he turned that option down. He isn't a fwb lots of sex...but lots of regular time too and just cuddling. And we have never used condoms....so if he has been with escorts its concerning if he isnt using protection with me. I've been tested and previous to me he was in a 6 year relationship ( not common law).

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[peter66]

Without knowing too much more about the situation, there's two possible scenarios in my mind. A - He's the kind of guy who "collects" and like to keep in contact with the ladies he's had good times with and sees them as people and likes the continued contact flirt and chats. B - He's the kind of guy who needs a plan B (see what I did there), and these continued texts and chats are his way of ensuring the sex continues if anything happens between you. Speaking as a long time hobbyist, a man's need is never fully met by just one woman. We hobby because we crave variety. If it were just sex, well, the actual sensations of sex is pretty much the same no matter who you're with, but the variety ie, different colours and tastes and personalities, this is what make is hard for guys like us to be satisfied with just one woman. For your continued happiness, you need to ask yourself if you're ok with this and with the possibility that he might "cheat" on you with an escort or MPA, and if he does, up to what point are you ok with. For example, if he see's a MPA, there's no guarantee of sex and he could be indulging in the variety he craves but is saving the sex for you. I don't know about you, but I know most women would probably NOT be ok with their guy going to MPAs and seeing escorts, which is why most guys don't tell their SOs about the hobby. But, since you know, and you seem like a fairly open minded woman, you'll have to decide for yourself what the line is. Good luck!

WTF?!! This whole thread is nothing but Annalisse/Mila talking to herself yet again

 

[squirrelhunter1]

WTF?!! This whole thread is nothing but Annalisse/Mila talking to herself yet again

I wish it was...would make my life easier ...

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[henricas]

WTF?!! This whole thread is nothing but Annalisse/Mila talking to herself yet again

Peter66 You are a fucking moron, Go see the wizard to see if he gives you some brains. Even shit would be an improvement over what you got now.

 

[peter66]

Peter66 You are a fucking moron, Go see the wizard to see if he gives you some brains. Even shit would be an improvement over what you got now.

Ok Annalisse/Mila
You’ve used that one 6x now...

How dumb are you to not have known those Bitches were recording your full shifts for like a year?? And you still haven’t found the links. Hope your family stumbles across them before you do

 

[johnbuyba]

Ok Annalisse/Mila
You’ve used that one 6x now...

How dumb are you to not have known those Bitches were recording your full shifts for like a year?? And you still haven’t found the links. Hope your family stumbles across them before you do

i hope noone ever wifes u and u stay a petty thot your whole life. what a sad bitch to still be going on over a bitch that took your business? don't u see how sad you are?

 

[JaimeWolf]

Ok guys honest opinions, guy I have been seeing has been in past with escorts and massage girls. He says he hasnt been with any since beginning of this year when we started seeing one another..however he is still chatting on social media with them . Let me tell you sex is off the charts with him, I've done everything he wants and more. I'm confident about those needs between us being met but a little unnerving this continual chat and the odd texts I've seen. So in your hobbyist opinions do you think he would still be getting together with escorts and massage girls regardless of our sexual relationship.

There's no harm in keeping in touch with former girlfriends, escorts, MPAs, fuck buddies, and other female friends. Hell, it should be ok for him to even get together with them for non-sexual activities. Likewise he should be OK with you interacting with your former boyfriends, fuck buddies, and other male friends. (If he dated a MPA without getting jealous, he should be just fine with this.)

FYI he's probably aware of this forum and can read your posts.

 

[squirrelhunter1]

There's no harm in keeping in touch with former girlfriends, escorts, MPAs, fuck buddies, and other female friends. Hell, it should be ok for him to even get together with them for non-sexual activities. Likewise he should be OK with you interacting with your former boyfriends, fuck buddies, and other male friends. (If he dated a MPA without getting jealous, he should be just fine with this.)

FYI he's probably aware of this forum and can read your posts.

I'm not concerned if he does, I'm just looking for opinions

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