Would you marry, live with or have a serious relationship with....

[Richard F]

Would you marry, live with or have a serious relationship (GF) with ....

1. A working girl, still working.
2. A working girl who just gave up.
3. A working girl who gave up a while ago.
4. A swinger if you didn't swing.

My answers ...

1. A working girl, still working. NO
2. A working girl who just gave up. Live/GF (done it)
3. A working girl who gave up a while ago. Live/GF
4. A swinger if you didn't swing. NO

 

[flower2008]

Done 1 & 2.

Would not do 3 or 4.

 

[Steve N]

Just being nosey but why would you do some and not others.......at the end of the day everyone has a past...

 

[?My HeAD Is IN De ClOuDS?]

I was wondering this myself, hence I threw the topic up. Guess its a bit of a trust thing.

I don't understand swingers, the few I've met have probably been at the extreme end of the scale and do it to boast/show-off/shock, I guess there are other swingers who do it for enjoyment and are a bit more private - dunno, don't understand them.

I do understand swinging, and if I was less of a private person I might have ventured into the edges of it - but I am not an exhibitionist in any shape or form.

 

[Hannah B]

This goes hand in hand with the editing thing.

For me, a relationship should be special and i don't want to share, so i would rather not be seriously involved with a swinger, as i do not swing or a girl who still works, as i would want her exclusively.

Everyone does have a past, but i would be interested in the present / future.

 

[@markvukovic]

Not sure about the marry,but that's because I'd be hesitant to marry ANYBODY! Apart Reviewom that,yeah sure,I'd happily date a swinger or a working girl,whether or not they were still working.The only issue would be that I'd be worried about somebody being violent with her,because it will always be a risky line of work.

 

[Junkers565]

Hi,

I've had a great time with a WG Reviewom Manchester that lasted for around a year.

We had great fun but alas it wasn't meant to be - I don't think that this was becasue of what she did however.

I guess everyone will have a different view and everyone is entitled to that.

Macca

 

[JOPS G]

I know trust comes in to it but wouldn't that matter in any relationship......

IMHO whenever you are with someone you are committed 100%- most of you know my opinion on this..

So being with a WG is still classed as cheating to me but don't start shooting me for this opinion

 

[April]

Everyone has there own opinions and beliefs Bunny so there will be no shooting involved. Reviewom my own point of view on this subject though, I am in fact a single guy and therefore when seeing a WG am not cheating on anyone. I am not totally sure myself on whether or not I would marry, live with or have a relationship with a WG. For me it would depend on the person themselves. I would never rule out the possibility because like with any relationship it depends on a number of things mainly the personality and how well you both get along with each other to take such a step. As for the other parts of the question, well this comes down to individual choices and feelings and is upto you to discuss if that situation arises.

 

[Angeline L]

I know a couple of people who are in relationships swingers and or WG and they are usually better off than most couples because there seems to be less secrets

Myself being brutally honest I would probably get jealous although I don't think I should (I'm only human) as Lord Lucan says never rule anything out as I get along so well with many people in the industry, many are great Reviewiends and in someways I trust them more than I trusted my exwife

 

[lalahamster]

My own experiences have been that being a WG and being in a relationship does not work for me I had tried keeping my escorting life secret and this did not work, too many lies to build a solid relationship on.

I have also tries being totally honest to boyReviewiends about what I do and that did not work for me either. It was a massive jealousy issue and who really can expect the boyReviewiend to understand.

I think for me at least the only way to be in a relationship whilst being a WG is to be involved with someone else involved in the industry who may have a greater understanding.

I am single, have been for over 18 months and for me this works.

 

[Boban]

All my sentiments exactly hun and I have done both like you, lied and told some what I did.

Its all too complicated for me and I don't do complicated so if/when I met someone I want to settle down with I would quit working in this industry.

 

[Kristian]

I know it must be very hard for WG's to build any kind of relationships, be it Reviewiends or boyReviewiends, as most are WG's in secret. I understand as many of my girls don't have many Reviewiends that they can confied in that's why myself and the receptionists always have a good relationship with our girls so they know they at least have three people they can turn too

 

[Pompal 09.]

I am really lucky to have great Reviewiends, most of my Reviewiends know what I do and are very supportive. I decided to tell my Reviewiends the truth as I trusted them and knew they would never judge me.

Not one of my Reviewiends were shocked or showed a negative reaction to what I do. In fact some were quite curious.

I did meet someone special a few years ago. I decided to take my site down and disassociate Reviewom the business. I walked away Reviewom it all so I could give my relationship a chance.

As it happens the relationship was total disaster but not because of escorting. I returned after 3 years and all of my escort world Reviewiends and clients have been so supportive.

 

[?Ridiculous~ Angel?]

You know when you are lucky when you have Reviewiends as good as adorable Anna.....

It's not the amount of Reviewiends you have it's the quality of them.

I am blessed with some good Reviewiends who I can count on through thick and thin

 

[momma31]

Same here.
I don't hide what I do, my family know as do my closest Reviewiends but obviously I don't shout it Reviewom the rooftops as we know what people who don't understand the industry can be like?

 

[Layman]

I'd have to say no to them all. A bit hypocritical but there you go.

 

[Whoaaa33]

Being a newcomer to this site, my view may be somewhat different.
Personally, it would first depend on whether I had used the services of a WG etc. Hypothetically, assuming I had done so, and the WG and I wanted to be together privately, then I have no qualms about it whatsoever, working or no. We had met through her line of work, and I've met enough people in my life that wanted their partner to stop doing something once they had got married/together.

 

[Riley07]

Not sure about number 4 but the 1st 3 definitely yes.
Reason, I know nothing about swinging, but there is a WG where if the chance arose (it won't) I'd grab it with both hands. At the end of the day if I can fall for someone knowing she f**ks other blokes for a living then why should it change if a relationship was to develop?

 

[corporal.hicks]

Swinging has changed radically over the last few years. No longer is it a case of couples randomly swapping with keys in a bowl, but now due to the internet a place where also single people use the resources they have to meet other people for some good, respectful and honest sex.

I started swinging 5 years ago after spending 3 years celibate. I had been trying to find a boyReviewiend as I was under the illusion this was the way forward if I wanted sex, but alas what I got was a lot of hocus pocus and game playing that led to one night stands (which I know it is hard to believe, but I hate) Just as I was about to give up and return to my life of celibacy I accidently outed a female Reviewiend of mine, who told me of this world I had been oblivious to.

I decided to take back the driving seat and I attended a swinging club with another female Reviewiend. I spent 5 hours telling everyone I lived like a nun (which was pretty much true) until eventually I hit the jacuzzi with a guy who introduced himself as a voyour. I had convinced myself that it meant I was safe as he just wanted to watch other people. Needless to say one thing led to another and we ended up having a night of passion in a private room, that finished with a hug and kisses. We remained good Reviewiends for a good 3 years after this and kept in contact via the net.

I have met a fair few people in this way and have discovered so much about myself in the process sexually and mentally. I wouldn't say I was an exhibitionist, although I do know I have a high sex drive. I would also say that naturally I am monogomous and if I were ever to fall in love would not want to share my man. I see swinging as my now, not my future. I'd also like to think it is the reason why I'm so good at what I do, after all... practice does make perfect!

As for marrying while working? No I don't want that. I have a career in another field. It doesn't pay enough by myself (mortgage etc) but put together with another wage I could more than likely live quite happily, if not modestly without feeling the need. He would just have to be fairly open minded and sexually active with me