Getting boring?

[Bsmalls1]

I've been at this game for many many years. Up until 2 years ago, the thrill of trying a new place a new lady and rolling the dice would keep me up and fully engaged. Id be rock hard even walking into this place! This was the hay days of Sunny, Mia, Wendy, Daisy, Josi et.

Something changed though 2 years ago.. I am kinda just.. Bored now? I still go but the excitement just isnt there. I find myself wanting to leave the massage sometimes half way through. I am hard during the main event now but not much during the tease or when I'm walking in.

Am I doing something wrong or does everyone experience this at some point?

 

[Thor1900]

I've been at this game for many many years. Up until 2 years ago, the thrill of trying a new place a new lady and rolling the dice would keep me up and fully engaged. Id be rock hard even walking into this place! This was the hay days of Sunny, Mia, Wendy, Daisy, Josi et.

Something changed though 2 years ago.. I am kinda just.. Bored now? I still go but the excitement just isnt there. I find myself wanting to leave the massage sometimes half way through. I am hard during the main event now but not much during the tease or when I'm walking in.

Am I doing something wrong or does everyone experience this at some point?

Then I would think it's time to get out of the hobby and go settle down and get a nice girl.

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[Sun&SandMan]

I've been at this game for many many years. Up until 2 years ago, the thrill of trying a new place a new lady and rolling the dice would keep me up and fully engaged. Id be rock hard even walking into this place! This was the hay days of Sunny, Mia, Wendy, Daisy, Josi et.

Something changed though 2 years ago.. I am kinda just.. Bored now? I still go but the excitement just isnt there. I find myself wanting to leave the massage sometimes half way through. I am hard during the main event now but not much during the tease or when I'm walking in.

Am I doing something wrong or does everyone experience this at some point?

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[sleeker]

Its because your not shopping in the right store.

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This cant be real

 

[Qster]

I've been at this game for many many years. Up until 2 years ago, the thrill of trying a new place a new lady and rolling the dice would keep me up and fully engaged. Id be rock hard even walking into this place! This was the hay days of Sunny, Mia, Wendy, Daisy, Josi et.

Something changed though 2 years ago.. I am kinda just.. Bored now? I still go but the excitement just isnt there. I find myself wanting to leave the massage sometimes half way through. I am hard during the main event now but not much during the tease or when I'm walking in.

Am I doing something wrong or does everyone experience this at some point?

My statement is more about full service and semi legit places as opposed to legit massages. I like therapeutic effects of legit massages so much that I don't think I will get bored. The HE and FS elements are a little different, probably age related, but mostly experience related.

The fact that terms like SOPAM exists says a lot about why excitement diminishes over time. For those new to this hobby, SOPAM = Standard Operating Procedures at an Asian Micro. The first three words being "Standard Operating Procedures" means nothing really changes, a different girl may give you a different look but the sessions are basically standard. In Edmonton, I love my regulars but I am losing interest as every session is more or less the same now. This is the reason I still do random TOFTT runs, a little bit of unknown to get the blood pumping but unfortunately, 99% of the time, it is still standard ops.

In Toronto, I only see one provider now. She is the most expensive provider I have seen in my life (she only sees one client a night) but one thing is certain, she is young, she is beautiful, she does not follow any standards, and you need the rest of the week to recover from the one night. I think there is still some excitement there because that types of sessions is relatively new to me and I only get to see her when I do my monthly trip to the city.

I started dating again, why some of you folks noticed that my FS session counts had dropped dramatically. The night I had to go to her house and meet her child and mother was actually nerve wrecking as I was no longer in control, I no longer understood what standard OPs meant. It is a good thing, I believe.

I don't think I will ever stop going to massages but there may be a day when the extra activities stop. I still remember the very first time I received a happy ending massage and how unique that was. It was in Hong Kong and there was nothing like it in Canada. Now, there are easily 20-30 establishments in Edmonton offering it and hundreds in Toronto. Unless there is a provider which offers something unique, not standard ops, more of us will feel the same reduced excitement after each visit.

LOL, some of you older folks would understand this joke: I fully blame Vivan for getting me addicted to this hobby and made sure that no one better can ever come along; different may be, just not better.

 

[Sun&SandMan]

This cant be real

I guess only one way to find out ?

 

[Eastcoastdan]

Bored? I guess so? I currently see two providers and it is not boring with them. I think it is as Qster said about SOPs. They both are a combination of responsive to what's happening in the moment, and with what they are feeling. Their energy fluctuates but not to where I think they are just going through the motions (even if they may be). I too, love legit therapeutic massage. I get so much out of it both physically and mentally. I can't see myself "shopping" around like I used to, but you never know. I don't even log on here as much as I used to.

I haven't gone to an FS session since October, where I used to do 1-5 a month. I may still do some, but it would be sparingly and would have to be a special situation for me to justify the expense. I log onto that site even less than here.

In the end, everyone does this for their own reasons and I have more going on in my life that I don't feel that itch like before.

 

[wasskiwabit]

Good thread. I myself have reached that age where the heart rate and other things don’t jump to attention like they used to. Sigh! Got so many good memories of the glory days that I should have a feeling of satisfaction in those.
We have these review boards and good recommendation for providers that go up and above SOP. These are what I look for currently . I had ATf’s a number of times over the years. With those, the connection was so good it never got stale. Maybe, as the poster above said, it’s time to find that “one” that fills other voids in my soul and stop looking for the quick fix in an MP or incall.

 

[luvrgirlz]

Qster, I think many of us could blame Vivan for our addiction to this.
Wow, I would pay a small fortune for aother sessoin with her